Uninhibited Long Term Relationship
I'm real, not spam, I'm not looking for a one night stand or booty . I open to whatever develops naturally, dating, long term relationship, something meaningful. I believe that a great relationship between a man woman is starting with a good foundation of a good friendship. In a relationship I want my best friend, partner and lover. Interested in someone that enjoys going out and having a good time, but also is comfortable hanging out at home and having a good time. Someone that's mature, easy going, honest, not shallow, kid free on the weekends and has their own place. I am 5'9, mature, honest, trustful, easy going, have a great sense of humor, independent, have my own house, not into mind games, lies drama. My kids live with me, I'm kid free on the weekends.
I try to grow and learn from past relationships. I'll share my thoughts. I've realized that sooner or later in all relationships the sex gets dull and boring for both men and women, which is totally normal, we love, we get comfortable and desensitized, get used to the person, is no longer as exciting like when first meeting. It's up to the couple to spice it up, but in most relationships, there's always one person that is close minded, stubborn, selfish, insecure or the jealous type and refuses to be open to new ideas. Dull and boring usually leads to miss communication, drama, getting tired of the person, losing interest, arguments and cheating, one of the reasons of divorce break ups. Or else me and you would not be single. When people first meet, it's new and exciting, they are in the honey moon stage, which usually lasts months to a year.
There's many ways to having fun by spicing things up, having fun as a couple, experimenting, exploring, you get the new and exciting feeling, but together as a couple, partners in crime and not as a single person looking to date and only wanting to have their own private fun. In reality, we don't own or belong to anyone, it can end at any time, we are all shared people, we've been with others prior to being with current person will continue to be with others after the relationship with current person ends. One of the reasons why single people stay single, men and women think that the new and exciting feeling should last forever, once the new and exciting wears off, it ends, they move on to next new and exciting person. The cycle continues till our sex drives decrease significantly, to tired, old, sex is no longer important, we rely on love companionship.
I'm not a jerk or an A hole, I like to be upfront, being on the same page is very important. I think that sexual chemistry is just as important as attraction, chemistry communication, I'm a giver, def not selfish, passionate, I have a high libido with the right person and looking for the same. Interested in someone that's expressive, very sensual, uninhibited, open minded, not prude or uptight. Uninhibited, as in with with your partner in private open to trying new experiences at least once, once in a while open to experimenting, exploring, spicing things up when things get dull, for example, maybe having fun in a public place, showing you off at an adult party or a 3some or fun with an attractive couple, trust respect, without jealousy or drama. Put Open minded on subject when responding, so i know your not spam email and that you took the time to read my ad.